The Bulldozer Creating Freedom

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After hearing this interview with Chris Guillebeau I was reminded about many of the things which I read in his book “The $100 Startup.” Later that day I grabbed my copy to flip through it and read a few of the lines which I underlined.

The first four things I marked in the book where:

 

  • “Freedom is what we’re looking for, and value is the way to achieve it.”
  • “The new reality is that working at a job may be far riskier choice. Instead take the safe road and go out on your own.”
  • “The need for change bulldozed a road down the center of my mind. – Maya Angelou”
  • “Freedom isn’t something to be envisioned in the vaguely distance future-the future is now.”

People should be valued and what we are providing should be a value.  By going out on our own we are not having one place which controls our job.  Whether we are self employed or employed in the traditional sense, we need to see ourselves as self employed. It is our character and conduct which keep us at a job and the amount of value we put into it and receive from it and allow us to move to a different position if desired.  

The full title of this book is “The $100 Startup: Reinvent the Way You Make a Living, Do What You Love, and Create a New Future.” The problem is once the bulldozer goes through, that clearing stands out and that freedom is all you see.  Is that really a problem though?  It is when you attempt to settle back into what “worked” before. So the area is cleared and we can let it grow back as a before or we can keep is clear waiting for ______ or we can build something new.  Should we take the bulldozer out again and even out the surrounding area?

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What will we do once the bulldozer has gone through?

Zig Ziglar Passed to Generations

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Greetings,

Today Zig Ziglar physically died. This morning I heard the news of his passing via the Ziglar Facebook page and have spent much time thinking about all the people he impacted.  These thoughts brought tears to the area around my eye sockets.  I have never talked to him or seen him live and have yet to read any of his books.  However, I have listened to some free audio recordings of him over and over and read some of his blog posts.  (To find that audio go the bottom of this blog The Master Key Is Golden)  When I heard of his passing I told my dad and he noted how he had seen Zig speak live years ago.  In some ways he impacted my dad who has in return impacted me for the better.

Zig influenced countless people.  His teachings reached many generations within his life time. He will be remembered for many things. He taught on marriage and parenting and work and goal setting and many other things.  He was able to weave them together and also separate them, along with creating short quotes that need to be used for generations to come. “Ziglar..inspiring true performance” is the overarching slogan on the Ziglar Inc. website.   He taught lessons that are “timeless.” He encouraged people to live a life of fullness that would also bless others with the overflow.

I searched for “Zig Ziglar” on Twitter and found many great quotes from and him.

Here are a few:

  • “The chief cause of failure and unhappiness is trading what you want most for what you want right now.”
  • “You will get all you want in life if you help enough other people get what they want.”
  • “It was character that got us out of bed, commitment that moved us into action and discipline that enabled us to follow through.”
  • “If you aim at nothing, you will hit it every time.”
  • “Your attitude, not your aptitude, will determine your altitude.”
  • “What comes out of your mouth is determined by what goes into your mind.”
  • “Be helpful. When you see a person without a smile, give them yours.”
  • “Motivation is like showering. The effects are not long term – but that’s why it’s recommend that you do it daily.”
  • “It’s not what happens to you that determines how far you will go in life; it is how you handle what happens to you.”
  • “Positive thinking will let you do everything better than negative thinking will.”
  • “You are the only person on earth who can use your ability.”
  • “You were born to win, but to be a winner, you must plan to win, prepare to win, and expect to win.”
  • “Whatever you consistently attach to the words ‘I am,’ you will become.”
  • “If you don’t see yourself as a winner, then you cannot perform as a winner.”
  • “The real opportunity for success lies within the person and not in the job .”
  • “Make failure your teacher, not your undertaker.”

(Note: While copying and pasting these quotes, over one-hundred and fifty mentions of his name were added to Twitter)

One quote I specifically looked online for was, “Many people today say, ‘Well, everything is relative,’ which is also absurd. … It’s safe to say that virtually every husband and wife in America does not want their mate to be ‘relatively’ faithful.

He was known for living what he taught. I have gained knowledge from him, but what he and the people at Ziglar Inc. want is for wisdom to take place.  This is done by acting on the knowledge.  …

You can learn more by checking out the links I mentioned prior and purchasing some of his material.

 

K, bye

By late December or early January I will be getting into the books I recently ordered from the Ziglar store. They are:
Zig: The Autobiography of Zig Ziglar
God’s Way Is Still the Best Way
See You at the Top: 25th Anniversary Edition
Born to Win: Find Your Success Code
 

 What is a lesson you have you valued from Zig?

How do you define overindulge?

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I was preparing myself breakfast and was thinking about my food along with another blog topic or two and all that I was adding to those three eggs.  There was half a yellow onion, four toasted tortilla shells, Worcestershire sauce(or as one of my uncles calls it, “What’s this here sauce”), black pepper, Tapatío, sea salt, grated four part cheese, fresh chives and bazil and peppers and yellow and red cherry tomatoes.   Somewhere in all these thoughts the term “overindulge” popped into my skull.

Can you really overindulge?  When I thought of indulging, I thought that was an excess to an unhealthy extreme, let alone overindulging.  So here I figured I would look the words up.  I prefer to see how words were defined awhile ago in the 1828 American Dictionary of the English Language and then see if the words have changed in a current dictionary that would have “automobile” and “computer” in it. (You can now find the 1828 dictionary online for free here.)  Here you can see the first definition of the word in the 1828 dictionary means:

1. To permit to be or to continue; to suffer; not to restrain or oppose; as, to indulge sloth; to indulge the passions; to indulge pride, selfishness or inclinations.

and here you can see what the first definition of the word in the Merriam-Webster Dictionary says :

1 a : to give free rein to

: to take unrestrained pleasure in : gratify

Now where am I going with this? I found that fully reading through both definitions of “indulge” still applied to every scenario I could think of, from food to play to wine to work to family to sex to exercise. When starting this blog I thought I would have more apposing definitions and had not fully thought out the word and how indulging can be a beneficial.

What really caught my attention though is how we define words and how we use words.

Should food or play or wine or work or family or sex or exercise ever be overindulged in?

There is not a bow to wrap this blog up in, but that is the way the cookie crumbles.

I overly recommend the American Dictionary of the English Language (1828 Edition)
I think of it as words that have not been diluted.

K, bye

Is having a second extra slice of cake on your birthday over indulging?

 

What does oneLOVE. mean?

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I first heard the term “one love” from the band P.O.D.‘s song Southtown from their album The Fundamental Elements of Southtown.  The lyrics go, “one love is easier said than done” and I often go back to the words.  They got the phrase from the music of Jamaica which is part of their musical influence.  I liked the words and took my own meaning to it.

Love is a driving force and in a Biblical view God is love. 1 John 4:8 (NLT)

The “one” signifies that there is one God.

My email signature has “oneLOVE.” in it and I write it somewhere in most cards.

I also put “oL.” in my physical signature above the last “r” in Christopher.

I capatalize the word “love” to make it stand out.

By combining them it is a reminder that the two go hand in hand with glue on their palms.

When writing out the word I normally make the period bigger so as to accentuate the finality of the whole statement that I have with “oneLOVE.”

In this statement I also see marriage partners as being the one that they unite with.

Along with all that, when I see it I am reminded to speak and walk and share love.

Here is the music video for Southtown.

K, bye

What did you think of when you hear “one love” ?

The Master Key Is Golden

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I assume we have all heard of the golden rule.  In fact, I feel like I should be capitalizing the words The Golden Rule.   The rule goes, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”  Please take a moment to think about this rule.  What comes to mind after you thought about?

I think of my quick verbal cuts at people, wars, marriages, salespeople, business owners, not forgiving, lost friendships, automobile horns in traffic, Jesus dying on the cross,  jumping on a live grenade, saying “thank you,” tipping for services, complimenting others and extra jalapenos on my burger.

Since I have mentioned Zig Ziglar quotes in my last couple of blogs, I shall again with, “You can have everything in life that you want if you will just help enough other people get what they want.”  This may briefly be summarized with the question, “How can we expect respect if we never show others respect?” (Summarized with a question? Does that make sense?)  In the Bible it says, “Do to others as you would like them to do to you.” Luke 6:31(NLT)  It is not called the Golden Rule in the Bible, but it is in there.

Does this rule still apply in business?   What if employees and employers treated each other how they would want to be treated?  How would attitudes and energy levels and pay look?  Would compliments push gossip out the door?

In Dave Ramsey’s EntreLeadership book he mentions how the rule is used is asked in all situations at his business.  How would this look apply when someone is let go from the business?  In the chapter Business Is Easy . . . Until People Get Involved, Dave says, “Regardless of the reason for the release, treat people right and with kindness.  You are in control and you still have a job; they have neither, so be kind.”  To hear an excellent overview of this topic, check out the Entreleadership podcast episode on the Golden Rule in business.

I see the Golden Rule as the master key the janitor carries.  The key that opens all the doors.  It can be used to open up and clean the dirty rooms and open up doors that we did not know even existed.  We will find more floors to the building as we keep opening doors!

K, bye

What room do you need to take this key to?

Note: As of writing this blog I have not read any of Zig Ziglar’s books, but I have listened to a few of his audio recordings many times over which you can get for free by signing up for Ziglar’s free newsletter here.  I also suggest his podcast here.
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